Is there any generation gap between you and your parents? What do you think can be done to bridge the gap?
Yes, there must be a generation gap between me and my parents. My mother, a traditional Chinese woman, cares too much about me. But I as a youth, need my own private space, and I don't need to be taken care of like a little baby. Sometimes, I say directly that they don't have to worry about me. I know it is their love for me, so I wouldn't shout at them. On the contrary, I will take the time to communicate with them.
81-27
Nowadays,the problems of generation gap bee more and more serious.The poor relationshipbetween parents and their children is very mon.Are these problems caused by the busy parents?
Or,do the harsh family rules affect the relationship of parents and children?
Firstly,in most of the families in China both of the parents have to go out for work in order toearn more money to provide better environment for their lovely children.Unfortunately,this causesthe rare munication between them and theft children,since these parents always take rest duringleisure time.These parents and children cannot know deeply about each other and friction willappear.Secondly,parents who ask their children to be absolutely obedient is also one of the gravecauses of the generation gap between them!They do not try to municate with their children as theirequals.Thus,misinterpretation of them may easily occur.
To solve these problems,the busy parents should sacrifice their spare time to municate withtheir children actively and friendly to improve their relation.At the same time,they can also observetheir childrens behavior at the same time in order to understand heir childrens personality as it canreduce the quarrel between them.Besides that,the parents should try to give up their absolutepower in family so as lo make their children feel free to chat with them.
Of course there is a generation gap between me and my parents.I think it is common,beacause we have different life experiences and grow up in different times.To narrow the generation gap,we have to try to understand the parent firstly.we should learn to put ourselves in the other's shoes and understand our parents' pains.Secondly,we should accompany our parents and communicate with them more.More contact with parents,our thoughts can influence parents.If the generation gap cannot be solved easily,we can seek help from older people who are more advanced and open to new ideas.
81-30
Yes,but little. since my parents and I are two difference generations, we have generation gaps. We sometimes have difference views on the things that happened arounds. We can listen to other's opinions and ideas,and I think it is important for us to understand our parents as well as it is also significant for parents to listen to our ideas.It is the communication that can bridge the generation gap. Also, we can experience the role reverssal with our parents to have a look at their lives.In this way we can understand each other better.
81-28
Yes.And I think it's impossible to break up the gap as a conquense of different growth environment and society major thought. For example, my parents would spend less time and money on sports and music while I like playing basketball and guitar, which leads to one situation that I ask them 500 yuan to buy a pair of basketball shoes of 1000 yuan to buy a guitar, which they can't understand. And they think that basketball and guitar will take up a considerable part in my spare time and my marks will be reduced by it. So the terrible conflict between my parents and me is necessary, which finally promote our conmmunication. Now they view buying basketball shoes as an understandbale thhing and I will also buy it after considering more about its price and use. Overall, the gap and conflict with it is unaovidable. We are supposed to face it and try to brideg gap with understanding and tolerance.
Yes. Inevitably, there is a generation gap between my parents and I, we having conflicts on something from time to time, such as what to wear, when to finish my homework and the music style. When we have different options on how to dealing with something, I would like to have a conversation with them in detail if necessary, otherwise I prefer to making choices by myself. In my opinion, it is an in-depth exchanges of view that make great contributions to the solution of any conflicts, especially which are caused by the generation gap.
Yes. Inevitably, there is a generation gap between my parents and I, we having conflicts on something from time to time, such as what to wear, when to finish my homework and the music style. When we have different options on how to dealing with something, I would like to have a conversation with them in detail if necessary, otherwise I prefer to making choices by myself. In my opinion, it is an in-depth exchanges of view that make great contributions to the solution of any conflicts, especially which are caused by the generation gap.
81-32
Of course I have generation gap with my parents.Sometimes，my parents can't understand my means.Also，I often have nothing to chat with my parents.
Though we have generation gap，however，we are family，we love each ever deeply.Maybe we have gap，But if only we remind that we love each other The gap will never boarden.With our growing，we will understand our parents more.Then，we can build a bridge on the gap.
81-29
I'm probably more particular. My parents and I have almost no generation gap. No matter what I do, my parents will always support me. I often discuss all kinds of knowledge with my father and mother, covering science, chemistry, politics, history, and geography. I always play with them too. So, I never thought about how to bridge the generation gap. The generation gap is almost non-existent in our family.
83-14
No. When I just went to the junior high school, I suddenly realise that the time I see my parents is shorter. I become more care about them instead of making them angry. And I believe that it's them who change my mind all the time because I was a bad guy before. Since then I swear I can't make them disappointed. Whatever I'm doing now is for them. They are my faith to stick to. I always love them, so do them to me.
Yeah. But time and family bound will fix it at last. So there's really not any I can come up with. Sometimes it can be accounted to the lack of life experience, and sometimes it occours just because either of you or your parents start a conversation at a wrong time. So I really think it does not matter much to me.
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